Thursday, April 22, 2010

Love

Love is, as per my opinion, resistance to change.

An emotional creature, like human being, gets emotionally attached to any person(or thing). For instance, an year before, we decided to leave our old house and move to a new house at a different location. That house had all the memories of my life I have had lived till now. So that was the change I desperately was trying to resist.

But we had to move on. In this case, the emotional bond is one sided, as non – living things don’t respond. Even though it is so strong.

Then you can imagine about the bond between two living beings. Bonds between you and your parents, your friends. These bonds grow stronger with time. And the harder you try to resist them with time. It is human tendency to get dependent to his surroundings.

Everything in life is exponential.

Everything in life is exponential. You might have observed that certain people who perform(a task) well once, have a higher probability (and need less effort) to perform next time and vice versa in the other case. So what’s your conclusion. The point is that when a person achieves success in a field, he not only himself feels good, but he is admired by all those around him. So everywhere around him(as well as inside him), atmosphere is positive. And human body(which is too complex to understand) at this point(when he is happy) releases those hormones which tend to increase his efficiency in any task he does. So the point is that he is physically as well as mentally fit to do the next job. So there is a two fold increase in the probability of next job to be successful. And is vice versa in the other case. So just be cool when you go for the next job whatever be the outcome of your previous job. So you see, life never adheres to a linear algorithm, because that way, things go boring. That’s why they always say ‘think positive’.